The one where your absence blocks a decision, not the one with the most senior person.

Should I explain the conflict?

One clause. 'A conflict I created' is more credible than a story.

What if both are client calls?

Escalate to your manager for coverage rather than choosing silently.

Tier 2: Code Yellow

What do you do when you double-booked two important meetings?

The short answer

Decide within minutes based on who can least afford your absence, then message the other organizer yourself with a specific alternative time and an offer to send notes or a delegate. Attending both partially is the only genuinely bad option — it insults two rooms instead of one.

What's actually at stake

01Organizers forgive absence and remember flakiness; a proposed alternative is the difference.
02Silence until the meeting starts converts a scheduling error into a reliability question.
03Delegating with a briefed stand-in often satisfies the ask entirely.

Do

· Choose within minutes.
· Offer a specific alternative slot.
· Send a briefed delegate or written input if the topic needs you.

Don't

· Do not hop between two calls.
· Do not let the calendar decline be the whole message.
· Do not wait until the top of the hour.

A draft you can send now

I've got a conflict I created and I can't make [meeting]. Two options: I can join [alternative time], or I'll send [colleague] with my input written up beforehand. Which is more useful?

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Questions people actually ask

Which meeting wins?: The one where your absence blocks a decision, not the one with the most senior person.
Should I explain the conflict?: One clause. 'A conflict I created' is more credible than a story.
What if both are client calls?: Escalate to your manager for coverage rather than choosing silently.

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