Should I explain why it slipped?

One sentence, after the new date. Any more and it reads as a defence.

What if I will miss the new date too?

Pick a date you would bet money on, then tell them the day it becomes doubtful — not the day it passes.

Tier 3: Dumpster Fire

How do you tell your boss you missed a deadline?

The short answer

Tell them today, in writing, in four lines: what was due, where it actually stands, the new date, and what you need. Do not lead with the reason. A named recovery date converts a failure into a plan, and the plan is what gets remembered.

What's actually at stake

01Managers forgive slips. They do not forgive finding out from someone else.
02A missed deadline with a credible new date is a scheduling issue. Without one it is a trust issue.
03Reasons offered before the plan read as excuses. The same reasons offered after read as context.

Do

· Give a specific new date and time, not 'early next week'.
· Say what you will drop or delay to hit it.
· Send it in writing so the record shows you raised it.

Don't

· Do not promise the original date can still be met if it cannot.
· Do not bury it in a status update at the bottom of a long message.
· Do not wait for the check-in meeting.

A draft you can send now

Heads up before you go looking for it: the campaign didn't go live Tuesday as planned — that's on me. It's built and reviewed now, and I'm launching it Thursday 9am with the dashboard live the same afternoon. To protect that date I'm pushing the newsletter refresh a week. Anything you want reprioritised instead?

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Questions people actually ask

Should I explain why it slipped?: One sentence, after the new date. Any more and it reads as a defence.
What if I will miss the new date too?: Pick a date you would bet money on, then tell them the day it becomes doubtful — not the day it passes.

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